First of all, we must address is the thing about worthiness or being worthy. This is something people most struggle with. The truth is your internal reality creates the external reality. So, if you don’t believe you are worthy of something, that thing won’t manifest no matter which technique you do. Even I personally had struggled with this for many years of my life. I realized the more you chase something (it could be an object or a person), the more it will go away from you! That is the crus of this paradox of desire.
This is because the reason you are chasing is because you are very subtly radiating that you don’t believe you can have that. This is coming from a place of scarcity. This is why intention has to be paradoxical – you have to intend without expecting that it has to be fulfilled (desperation), rather do it with utmost trust in the universe for the best!
How this Paradox of Desire works?
This may not be outspoken but that is what is happening at the level of vibration – you are pushing your manifestation away from you by chasing and by believing I am not worthy. And, when you do that, the law of attraction keeps bringing you circumstances and events that reinforce the belief in you that you don’t have it.
Has it never happened to you that you like someone and the more you try to impress the person and chase the person, the further he or she goes away from you? I am sure everyone has experienced that at least once. Also, I have heard that most of the long-term partners with amazing relationships meet totally randomly when they are not even expecting. This is because you are just being a vibrational match.
Failing to understand these principles has brought endless pain and suffering to the lives of people. This works for financial abundance as well – that is why people don’t get out of debt. Because they are caught in the vibration of the scarcity of wealth and keep on propagating that on and on. And, you always keep on cribbing that money never seems to come to me, no matter what. And, the more desperately you want to change your situation the longer it takes. That’s because desperation brings delay. This is why it is a paradox – the more you want something further it goes away. Neediness is anti-manifestation.
Fundamentally, this is an issue that steps from your feeling of unworthiness. If you think you don’t deserve happiness and the joys of life, you will never be in a situation where you can be happy and joyful about. Everything is created twice – first in mind and second in reality. If you understand that, you will start to own & use this paradox of desire in your favor!
Manifestation Technique of Letting Go
So, if you are struggling with this then one thing you can do is start letting go. Start surrendering. Knowing fully well that whatever is meant for me will come to me on its own accord. The moment that feeling of chasing comes, you need to get yourself into the realization that the more you chase, the further it goes away from you. And, so you let go and allow the universe to do the bidding.
Manifestation Technique of Mirror Work
The second amazing thing you can do is mirror work! Whenever you come in front of a mirror you have to internally say to yourself: that you are worthy of fill in the blank – whatever you are manifesting. For e.g., I am worthy of financial abundance. I am worthy of having a great body. I am worthy of having loving relationships. This should be like a personal mantra every time you look into the mirror and see how slowly miracles take over your life.
Another technique that I personally do and is one of my favorites is to own an object that reminds you of what you are manifesting. For example, if you are struggling with being worthy – you can wear a bracelet that says I am worthy – which you can find easily on Amazon. It is a way of externalizing & physicalizing what you are creating inside and sort of acts as a reminder of where you are headed. Or say you want to buy a BMW car, buy a BMW keychain now, and carry it with you. This will believe it or not will greatly speed up the manifestation process.
So, do use the techniques shared above with the understanding of this paradox of desire & you will see what you always wanted has been never away from you!
